Shell's Sentiments

This is my response to a post one of my sisters made. For context her post was in regards to learning a family member passed away. Followed by a coworkers passing a few hours later. 

If you have a hard time making time to take care of yourself, I have a few suggestions for you to upgrade your self care routine this year. I prioritize others’ needs over my own. I mistakenly believed generosity would guarantee affection. Sadly, I have learned the hard way, multiple times, that is not true. 

Do you sometimes feel that the more effort you put in, the farther you are from your desired destination? Does this sound like you? I am tired. I will start tomorrow. I will be happy when I lose 20 pounds. Life will be easier when no longer struggle to pay our bills. I hate my job, I will be less stressed when I land my new job. Once I finish this project, I can be present. I need this degree or certification before I can.

Happy quitter’s day!The second Friday in January is known as National Quitter Day in regards to New Year Resolutions. Why did society choose January 1st to mark the new year, and why is it considered ideal for personal change? Winter “New Year”: Whose idea was that? 

Do you subscribe to Amazon Prime? Have you also signed up for Amazon’s First Reads program?

I am a firm believer you learn lessons when you are ready to accept the outcome. He prepares the way but uiltimately you have to take the lead. Also, you never know who will open your eyes. This story is an encounter I had while buying groceries at our local Publix. 

When you have a family member with a nut allergy, you learn to make recipes different. This is our favorite cheese ball recipe without the nuts.  And rarely rolled into a ball. If you have ever seen me cook, rarely do I measure ingredients, especially with spices. This recipe is a guide to get you started. But trust me when I say I add more seasoning to my recipe. I sprinkle until my heart feels content

If you need a quick and easy treat, try these homemade mini Twix bars. You need a box of Mini Nilla Wafers and a bag of Rolo's. Turn your oven on to 350 degrees. 

On my way to the store one morning, I observed a cow pushing its head through a barbed-wire fence to get a taste of the lush grass on the other side.I laughed out loud and wondered to myself if that cow realizes he has access to acres upon acres of green grass right behind him. A simple turn grants him limitless access. Yet his focus is on what he doesn’t have. He risks self-harm, choosing this method instead of taking advantage of what is already his. All to taste what is outside his reach. 

The first word that comes to mind describing 2024 is disappointment.I experienced some major upsets in all areas of my life, including family, friends, work, and even finances. At one point, I felt like my entire world was falling apart.