I didn’t ask for a break. I didn’t even say out loud how tired I was.
But Curtis knew.
Somewhere between the everyday noise, the to-do lists, and the constant motion of life, he noticed what I hadn’t stopped long enough to admit—I needed rest. Real rest. The kind that doesn’t come from sleeping in or crossing things off a list, but from stepping away completely.
So he planned a night away. Quietly. Thoughtfully. With love woven into every detail.
He booked the cabin. He planned the evening. And without me knowing, he arranged something extra special—because that’s who he is when he wants to take care of me.
We didn’t go far. Just down the road. But the moment we arrived, time slowed.
Phones were set aside. Life loosened its grip. The air felt calmer, inviting us to breathe a little deeper. This wasn’t about sightseeing or filling every minute—it was about reconnecting. About being present. About remembering that sometimes the best gift you can give someone is space to rest and feel seen. The gift of being taken care of, instead of being the caregiver.
We believe food has a way of connecting you, and this weekend delivered in the best way.
Curtis secretly worked behind the scenes with Tasha from Fix’nz 4 The Soul to create a snack tray for the weekend.
Tasha truly went above and beyond. She created a charcuterie board overflowing with fresh fruit, meats, cheeses, nuts, and chocolates. There was so much food—and every piece felt intentional. She absolutely hit it out of the park. Especially when I found out she had less than 24 hours’ notice and had never done a charcuterie board before
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After a short hike around the property, sometime chilling by the firepit, when ventured out for dinner.
For dinner he took me to The Bees Knees, and it did not disappoint. Their hamburgers are incredible—juicy, comforting, and exactly what you want after a long day. The hand-cut fries were perfection, especially dipped into my favorite BBQ ranch. I don’t even pretend to share that dip—it’s that good. I also enjoyed their seasonal Snickerdoodle drink, which felt cozy and fun, like a little celebration in a glass.
It wasn’t just food. It was care and comfort. It was one more reminder that slowing down allows us to truly enjoy what’s in front of us.
Curtis worked hard to plan a night where I didn’t have to think, organize, or take care of anything—just relax and be with him.
That kind of love is in the details. In the planning. In noticing when someone is tired and choosing to show up for them anyway.
Life moves fast. Too fast. And if we aren’t careful, we miss the moments that refill us.
This night reminded me that connection doesn’t require big trips or packed schedules. Sometimes it’s a cabin close to home, a shared meal, and someone who loves you enough to say, You need a break—and I’ve got you.
If you’ve been feeling tired, stretched thin, or disconnected, consider this your reminder: slow down. Let someone take care of you. Eat the good food. And make space for the moments that matter most.
Sometimes, the getaway you need is closer than you think.
Here is how to connect with the “locals”
Coops Creek Cabins - Facebook
Fiz’nz 4 the Soul - Facebook
The Bee’s Kness - Facebook
I am not going to pretend I understand the idea and fasicantion with February 14th.
People idoilze a day that someone deemed an important day to shower your “loved” ones with expensive gifts. Those gifts somehow symolize the love you have for each other?
In the money world, the word appreciation refers to the increase in value. Now apply the principle to your people. When you learn to appreciate your people well their value and worth increases. Leaving you with a valuable assest.
One easy way to add value to your people is to…Stop saying I appreciate you - that is a generic boring statement. That statement is insulting and thoughtless. Your people deserve better. They deserve brand name recognition.
I appreciate you - is over used and rarely said with intentionality anymore. Many speak without emotion or eye contact, sounding like a robot.
When people use that line on me, I cringe. It feels a lot like toxic positivity. There aren’t many things worse than someone telling you they appreciate you when they have no idea what you just did.
Turn your generic statement into a high value statement by adding the why. Tell your people what they did that makes you appreciate them. Spend a few moments and exert some effort in choosing your words. Invest in your people!
Your people will notice the change. They will match your words with your actions. The energy in the room will change. You may even gain some respect.
Your people are your fortune. If you can not invest in them, you have nothing.
Try investing in at least one person today.
The problem with lies -
You have to keep up with the story you presented.
At first it may not seem like a big deal. However it is the details that always break you.
You can not create stories always presenting yourself as the hero. Hiding or misrepresenting the details of your past is a dangerous game.
Break my heart once shame on you.
Break my heart twice shame on me.
Break my heart three times - that will not be.
